the way i see it

Happiness is not something that i am but rather something i am not.I define my happiness by not letting  negative thoughts,unnecessary drama in life,aching relationships and the miscellaneous of life get in my way.I have my bad days,that i agree wholly,but i am at peace and excited to live my life the way i see it .H appiness is a journey,not a destination knowing too well that loving is brevity. Whatever you need is inside of you. If you are trying to look for happiness elsewhere you are wrong.You are your own yardstick. The society places too much expectations of happiness in all the wrong things. We think we will be happy if we just get that car, that boyfriend you always had a fling with,that new lace dress or maybe even that baby! I find it kind of ridiculous when we invest our happiness and self esteem to material things. Everyone of us has a target to gain something in life. Many times usually when we achieve one thing we yearn for something more,maybe even greater ...

Not until you are lost in this world can you begin to find your best path.  Realizing you are lost is the first step to living the life you want.  The second step is leaving the life you don’t want.  Making a big life change is pretty scary.  But you know what’s even scarier?  Regret. I can tell you from my own life experience that I’ve found love, lost it, found it, lost it and then I found it once again.  But each time what I found was more incredible than the last.  So remember that everyone suffers in life at some point.  Everyone feels lost sometimes.  The key is using your experiences to grow.  When you apply what you’re learning to your future choices and actions, you move forward not backward.  You become stronger and wiser.  It’s not easy, but it’s worth it in the end. Thought i would share an inspiring snippet from a random blog by Marc and Angel. Have yourselves a lovely,adventurous and fun filled we...

 My imperfections are my teacher, My flaws are my source of joy, I weep of a lesson done i never cry foul, I make a thud but that's it, My motto to; Behold a dream and look forward, Risk more than it is required in a shell, That's  fun!!! Learn less than normal,  Map the lazy mind, Give less than expected, Selfishness of the mean, Your choice, Your destiny, Your dream so bright,  Your gain,your smile, They got their lane,a fast and furious kind,  Too fast for the crawlers, Too good to experiment,  To fall is not to remain stuck, To fall is to crawl and then race, You cannot be like them,  A rare species of your own breed, A hero to the stranded heroin, Your own therapy,  Don't let them ignore you to shut you up, Different abilities for different talents, Address you dream properly to make it a prophesy, Follow and lead, Lead the mislead. Stifle not your dream, You were a clown to them with defeat, Wa...

Have you ever had that feeling of marching at the same point like forever?In motion and no movement?You cannot seem to move forward,neither backwards.You just stagnant. Temptations are parasites just like procrastination. These two fight  an emotion,spiritual and physical battle within us.Everyone of us has that thing that pulls them away from achieving their goal. While I'm at it,procrastination should not deter you from losing that post-baby weight.Don't lean on excuses! Try,try,try and conquer.The joy of a battle won cannot be compared to the sorry regretful look of failure.For those that are panting hard after taking two stair steps,work on losing that extra kilo.Remember prevention is better than cure. When i named this blog post time to exhale i was tired of living a cycle kind of life. It just does not complete me at all. I was smiling but i was not happy inside. I talked positive but guilt made me wallow inside. You might just be wondering why are my friends ...

With those hands she first held me in her arms, With those hands she held my hand and led the way, Watched me grow up and wipe all those tears, With those hands she put me to bed every single day, With those hands she installed discipline, I hated her then,now i am forever greatful, With those hands she taught me to write,feed,wash,cook, I will forever be greatful to those hands . Now the precious little life in me, I am so anxious, Is it a boy or a girl? I wonder.... You are my pearl,my ruby,my small angel, You kick mummy so hard at times she cannot sleep, Times you are so hungry and move so much, I am not annoyed little one, You make mummy so proud. The kicks make me think you will be a footballer, Just like your daa-dee who calms you down always, Times i go out of breathe and get so tired, But i will not give up fighting for you, You are my bundle of joy,my rhythm and blue forever, Your little room is ready.Painted pink and purple, I know you'll love...

Valentine Day. It is just a few days away. T his is when those in stable relationships reaffirm and express their love . The singles watch the day pass all grumpy as they watch the roses,cards and chocolate exchange.   Women absolutely love the surprises they receive on Valentine’s day while men on the other hand are typically only surprised to wake up realizing it is a holiday and should have added that on the reminder list in their phones with the big red hearts to remind them. Lest they get the nasty mean stares from their ladies.  Lovers take a chance to go on exotic trips, host exotic diners thus marking this day in style. A lot of gift exchanging is done all with love. You could, of course, do chocolates. Or roses. Or just stick around home and reflect on each others love milestone with a simple candlelit diner and a simple card! Last year a friend received a gift well wrapped. It was a set of cufflinks. They were not that classy but they were something. It ...

It is a thief!! Cancer has robbed two family treasures in my life. Life flowed energetically in them and they had a long way to go. They could have seen their children graduate,walk their daughters down the aisle,be there to be called grandparents....they are no more. Days where we said we wish we knew and detected the plague early are long gone. They are in a better place with no pain. How i wish that they had recovered and be ambassadors of hope to those affected by the disease frail and fragile.Those who see just darkness and pain,those that see no light at that tunnel end. On this day i celebrate a battle well fought by Steve and Jane. Though not physically here i know that they are at peace and are looking down upon us. Our guardian angels,you are forever in our hearts.May your souls rest in eternal peace.   Cancer is said to be caused by malignant cells these leads to the  uncontrolled growth of abnormal cells in the body. The cancer may  spread to mo...