the way i see it

Happiness is not something that i am but rather something i am not.I define my happiness by not letting  negative thoughts,unnecessary drama in life,aching relationships and the miscellaneous of life get in my way.I have my bad days,that i agree wholly,but i am at peace and excited to live my life the way i see it .H appiness is a journey,not a destination knowing too well that loving is brevity. Whatever you need is inside of you. If you are trying to look for happiness elsewhere you are wrong.You are your own yardstick. The society places too much expectations of happiness in all the wrong things. We think we will be happy if we just get that car, that boyfriend you always had a fling with,that new lace dress or maybe even that baby! I find it kind of ridiculous when we invest our happiness and self esteem to material things. Everyone of us has a target to gain something in life. Many times usually when we achieve one thing we yearn for something more,maybe even greater ...

Not until you are lost in this world can you begin to find your best path.  Realizing you are lost is the first step to living the life you want.  The second step is leaving the life you don’t want.  Making a big life change is pretty scary.  But you know what’s even scarier?  Regret. I can tell you from my own life experience that I’ve found love, lost it, found it, lost it and then I found it once again.  But each time what I found was more incredible than the last.  So remember that everyone suffers in life at some point.  Everyone feels lost sometimes.  The key is using your experiences to grow.  When you apply what you’re learning to your future choices and actions, you move forward not backward.  You become stronger and wiser.  It’s not easy, but it’s worth it in the end. Thought i would share an inspiring snippet from a random blog by Marc and Angel. Have yourselves a lovely,adventurous and fun filled we...

 My imperfections are my teacher, My flaws are my source of joy, I weep of a lesson done i never cry foul, I make a thud but that's it, My motto to; Behold a dream and look forward, Risk more than it is required in a shell, That's  fun!!! Learn less than normal,  Map the lazy mind, Give less than expected, Selfishness of the mean, Your choice, Your destiny, Your dream so bright,  Your gain,your smile, They got their lane,a fast and furious kind,  Too fast for the crawlers, Too good to experiment,  To fall is not to remain stuck, To fall is to crawl and then race, You cannot be like them,  A rare species of your own breed, A hero to the stranded heroin, Your own therapy,  Don't let them ignore you to shut you up, Different abilities for different talents, Address you dream properly to make it a prophesy, Follow and lead, Lead the mislead. Stifle not your dream, You were a clown to them with defeat, Wa...